The starfish sex position is a great position to perform. The man lies flat on his back, with his legs slightly bent and wide apart. The woman sits in between the man’s thighs facing him. The man takes hold of the woman’s ankles and raises them above his body, with his elbows firmly planted on the bed to support the weight. The woman then leans backward and plants her palms on the bed, slightly under the man’s ankles.
In this position, the woman uses her arms to move and take control of the sexual pace. The man should have the strength to hold the woman’s ankles since she can also push on the man’s hands in order to gain the energy to move her buttock to take the man in and out of her vagina. The man can help out by thrusting upwards for deeper penetration, and they meet halfway.
