The cowboy position is the exact reverse of the cowgirl. The woman lays flay on her back with her legs together. The man straddles the woman in the hips and sits gently on her lap. For the first entry, the woman can assist the man by lifting her hips to help ease the penetration. The man can move forward or backward in order to achieve the desired pleasurable spot, and it may not be a spot-on at first. The woman can also spread her legs to accommodate the penis, though it is not easy considering that the man is straddling her.
The woman in this position does not need to do much moving, but her hands are free to offer feather-light touches to her lover’s body.
The man can execute this position in a backward or forward thrust, and the woman should inform her man what motion pleasures her best.